macOS: use ld_classic as workaround for linker issue with XCode 15
XCode 15 (on Ventura and Sonoma) has a linker issue, see https://github.com/mesonbuild/meson/issues/12282, workaround is to use ld_classic
XCode 15 (on Ventura and Sonoma) has a linker issue, see https://github.com/mesonbuild/meson/issues/12282, workaround is to use ld_classic